Eat First --
You Don't Know What They'll Give You, The Adventures of
an Immigrant Family and Their Feminist Daughter
"Imagine having changed the course of history. Sonia Pressman Fuentes. . . , one of the founders of the National Organization for Women (NOW) along with Betty Friedan and others, actually did . . . Her story could have been told in anger or bitterness, but that's not Fuentes' personal, or literary, style.News
On Sat., June 25, 2011, at the annual NOW conference at the Embassy Suites Hotel in Tampa, Fl, Sonia received an award for being a cofounder of NOW and for her work at the EEOC.
On May 17, 2011, the Veteran Feminists of America saluted Sonia.
Sonia answers questions dealing with women’s rights and women’s history on allexperts.com and on a blog for women in science (www.scitable.com).
Sonia’s March 3, 2011, letter to the editor of the Sarasota Herald-Tribune is discussed in “Religious Rehab at Florida Jail Sparks Protest,” Church & State (Vol. 64, No. 4, Apr. 2011), the magazine of Americans United for Separation of Church and State.
Finding Aid for Fuentes papers, CDs, audio- and videotapes, Schlesinger Library, History of Women in America
The Schlesinger Library on the History of Women in America, which has the largest collection of Sonia’s CD’s, videotapes, and audiotapes, has organized them and this finding aid is online here.
Summer 2008: Congratulatory letters from the presidents of Cornell University and the University of Miami (FL)
On Dec. 7, 2007, Sonia was made the first honorary member of the Florida Association for Women Lawyers, Sarasota chapter (established in 1984), in its history for "her lifelong dedication to the progression of women's rights." See "Feminist Icon Accepts Sarasota-FAWL's Honorary Membership" in the February 2008 issue of The Docket, the newspaper of the Sarasota County (FL) Bar Association.
From July 2008 to mid-April 2011, she served as a Commissioner of the Sarasota Commission on the Status of Women.
Sonia was honored October 30, 2007, by the Veteran Feminists of America (VFA) at a program at the headquarters of the National Woman's Party, the Sewall-Belmont House, in Washington, D.C., as one of one hundred forty pioneer feminists who lived or worked in the Washington, D.C., area from 1963-1975 and made significant contributions to women's rights. She was honored by VFA again at a June 9, 2008, program at the Harvard Club in NYC as one of thirty-six feminist lawyers, including U.S. Supreme Court Justice Ruth Bader Ginsburg, who made significant contributions to women’s rights in the 1963-1975 time period.
National Organization for Women (NOW)
Sonia is included on NOW’s history website at http://www.now.org/history/the_founding.html (She is number 8 in the picture of the attendees at the Oct.1966 meeting). Not all of those pictured were founders.
Read Sonia's article, "The Founders of NOW," at www.community.feministing.com
After Sonia’s article was published, she secured additional information and founder Inez Casiano died so that Sonia’s conclusions now are: There were forty-nine founders of NOW, on forty-three of whom Sonia was able to locate up-to-date information. Of these forty-three, it appears that nine survive (although Sonia hasn’t checked on the survivors since her article was published). The largest number of founders (fifteen) came from the Washington, DC, area (Washington, DC; Virginia, and Maryland). New York State was next with thirteen, and Wisconsin third with eight.
Information on NOW’s founders and early strong supporters, with pictures, based on Sonia’s research and conclusions, is available on NOW’s website at http://www.now.org/history/founders.html
Sonia will be featured in Feminist: Stories from Women’s Liberation, an upcoming documentary film on the Second Wave of the women’s movement. For information on the film or to arrange to show it, contact the filmmaker, Jennifer H. Lee, at jenniferleesanfilippo@gmail.com
At a Mother's Day luncheon of the National Research Center for Women & Families in Washington, D.C., on May 6, 2005, Sonia was one of 10 women honorees celebrated as foremothers for improving women's lives.
On March 18, 2005, Sonia was one of four recipients of the Immigrant Achievement Award of the American Immigration Law Foundation. To see a video of Sonia’s acceptance speech, click here and scroll down to the “View video” at the bottom of the screen.
Sonia was featured in the August 5, 2004, issue of the University of Miami Alumni E-Newsletter (she is an alumna of the law school) as follows:
Featured Alumna Sonia Pressman Fuentes Leader of the Women's Movement Isn't Slowing Down
For most immigrants fleeing Nazi Germany in the early 1930's, America was a land of freedom and opportunity that usually came with the price of hard times and hard work that left little room for philosophical or social conviction. Not so for Sonia Pressman Fuentes, JD '57, who even today is continuing to work hard in support of her convictions. Fuentes is one of the most lively and active feminist public speakers and authors today, not allowing herself to rest on the laurels of her past accomplishments or slow down in the twilight of her life. From being the first female attorney in the Office of General Counsel at the Equal Employment Opportunity Commission to being one of the co-founders of the National Organization of Women (NOW), Fuentes continues today to be driven and energetic in her pursuit of women's rights. Recently, Sonia has been traveling the globe and continuing her experiential education in culture, society, and the arts. She has also spoken on behalf of candidates supportive of the women's movement, and will be featured in an upcoming documentary by Jennifer Lee regarding a revival and the second wave of the women's movement. Her memoir, Eat First. You Don't Know What They'll Give You; The Adventures of an Immigrant Family and their Feminist Daughter continues to be a popular and inspirational selection for all people in all walks of life...
Sonia is included in the online exhibit of the Jewish Women's Archive entitled Jewish Women and the Feminist Revolution, which consists of 74 Jewish women who contributed to women's rights in the U.S. Sonia is included in the 1963-69 Timeline when she was a co-founder of NOW and the first woman attorney in the General Counsel's Office at the EEOC (Equal Employment Opportunity Commission.) Visit the Archive.
For the Washington Jewish Week article on the six Washington, D.C., area women included in the exhibit, click here.
"Sonia Fuentes writes about an unexpected range of subjects, yet somehow they remain always linked to her roots in the Yiddish world of Eastern European Jews. Once that is understood, the traditional interconnections between her several worlds make perfect sense as one woman's reflection on the ways in which family, society, culture, and political engagement have always lived in creative tension--whether in the world of Fuentes' forebears or in the exciting one of our own." -- Tom Freudenheim, then-Deputy Director, Jewish Museum, Berlin, Germany
"I love your book. It arrived yesterday, and as I began to check it out, I couldn't stop reading it. The business of Jewish geography really got to me. As a rather unreconstructed, chauvinist Jewish girl from Milwaukee, I have played the 'Do you know' game all my life. Often with great success and pleasure. Thank you for sending the copy to us. I am so pleased to have it for our collection." -- Barbara Haber, Curator of Books, Schlesinger Library on the History of Women in America (at Radcliffe College)
"Evoking a tear here and a chuckle there, with her heart-warming wit and wisdom, Sonia Pressman Fuentes recounts the story of a Jewish family, her family, from her grandparents' origin in a shtettl in Poland right through her own career as a founder of NOW and beyond." --Gus Tyler, columnist, contributing editor, The Forward
An excerpt from Eat First, called "Coming to America," is included in the anthology Matzoh Ball Soup, A Collection of Personal Stories, Poems, and Rabbinical Sermons That Inspires the Jewish Spirit, by Oliver Kramer and Joshua Kramer, published in November 2002.
Eat First was required reading in the spring 2000 semester in the School of Industrial and Labor Relations at Cornell University in a course on writing about minorities (including women) in America. Ms. Fuentes gave talks to two classes at Cornell in April 2000. In the spring 2001 semester, Eat First was required reading at American University in Washington, D.C., in a course on Writers in Print and in Person.
In 2000, Sonia lectured on “How Being an Immigrant Shaped My Life” at Cornell University and thereafter gave varying versions of that talk at other venues. Articles on that subject have appeared in: 120 HIAS Stories, a book published to commemorate the 120th anniversary of HIAS (Hebrew Immigrant Aid Society) (July 2002), Women in Judaism, a Multidisciplinary Journal (April 2006) (available in html and pdf formats), the Sarasota-Manatee Jewish News(January 2007), the website of the Museum of Family History, and Der Bay, the newsletter of the International Association of Yiddish Clubs (Vol. XX, No. 1, Jan. 2010).
Ms. Fuentes is included in the Gallery of Prominent Refugees created in 2000 by the U.N. High Commissioner for Refugees to commemorate its 50th anniversary. Click here to view the Gallery. Ms. Fuentes is also included in Women of Achievement in Maryland History, a reference book published in October 2002 and distributed to public and private schools, libraries, religious institutions, and private service organizations in Maryland.
Eat First was recommended in May 2000 by Ofrah's Jewish Book Club. Click here to read the review.
Eat First is one of the listed books for the Women's Institute for Freedom of the Press.
There is a 7-part piece entitled "The Making of a Jewish American Feminist: Sonia Pressman Fuentes," about Eat First and Ms. Fuentes at About.com.
Fuentes was one of nine authors who have published e-books who were profiled in the May 2001 issue of Publishing Success, a publication of the Writer's Digest. Click HERE to read the interview online.
Fuentes is included in John Kremer's Self-Publishers Hall of Fame, Distinguished Women of Past and Present, the Hall of Fame of HIAS (Hebrew Immigrant Aid Society), the International Who's Who of Professional and Business Women (7th ed. 2000), Who's Who in American Law (2005-2006 edition), and in Who's Who in Sarasota. She will also be included in Great Women of the 21st Century to be published in 2008 by the American Biographical Institute and has been nominated for inclusion in the American Biographical Institute's Women of the Year-A Celebrated Collection of Biographies, also set for publication in 2008.
You can read a summary of Eat First with excerpts at Sunshine for Women. Sunshine for Women explores women's history, feminist theology, women's contributions to art, music, literature, reproductive rights, global feminism and more. Visit the Sunshine for Women homepage for a list of features.
On October 12, 2001, Sonia gave the keynote address at the 20th anniversary celebration/retreat of the Women Lawyers of Utah in Deer Park, Utah. Her talk. "The Women's Rights Movement: Where It's Been, Where It's At" is on a website for professors, researchers, administrators and librarians of women's studies programs.